woensdag 30 april 2008

You are the buyer

Don't sell yourself.

dinsdag 29 april 2008

Everybody just wants attention

Pay attention. But lean back. Never communicate neediness.

maandag 28 april 2008

The Internet is the Center of the Universe

It used to be the Library.

zaterdag 26 april 2008

Love is blind

Looking closely at people's faces, I realized most ot them weren't perfect. One girl was a bit chubby. Another had too many moles on her face. And still another had a lot of pimples. The girl I considered to be the prettiest seem to be a bit on the skinny side.
Why didn't I notice these things before? I guess I worried so much about my own appearance that I forgot to look closely at other people.

vrijdag 25 april 2008

Life is strange

I don't know what I'm going thru.

donderdag 24 april 2008

Love is a hurting thing

Don't fall in love too easily. And don't be a wussy.

woensdag 23 april 2008

dinsdag 22 april 2008

Dangerous men, adventurous women

Good combination. Perfect relationship.

maandag 21 april 2008

Femme Vocale - You Tube

I forgot to tell you about the music entertainment we received last Saturday at the party. It was from a three-women group called Femme Vocale. They sang acapella, which is quite difficult to do I know. I had a few glasses of red wine and turned tipsy right away. So I attempted to sing with them as soon as they hit our table. I guess it wasn't bad and embarrassing at all; I didn't hear anybody complain. We sang a James Taylor number called You got a friend.

zaterdag 19 april 2008

Sexual love is not separate from sexual desire and sex

A love affair is based on sexual desire and need for sex. Don't be fooled. Women want it as much as men do. Do men give love to get sex? Do women give sex to get love? Or is it just the other way around? Women need sex to become fruitful and be fulfilled.

vrijdag 18 april 2008

donderdag 17 april 2008

Self-absorption is a sign of insecurity

Say what you have to say. Do what you have to do.

dinsdag 15 april 2008

How to turn people into slaves

Pretend you are Somebody. A god or a guru. Insinuate that everybody wants you. That you are the only one who can fulfill anybody's needs. Be extremely attractive. Try to look and act like a famous movie star or a popular singer. And don't give a damn.

Everybody wants a lover

To love and be loved. But why? Play hard to get and you turn them into wussies. Nobody wants to be rejected. Are you strong enough? Or are you just plain stupid?
Nature is just trying to trick us into having a long-lasting love affair. It's called neediness. Or being needy for a romantic and sexual relationship. Turning everyone into wimps.
I bet you can take care of yourself better than anybody else.

zaterdag 12 april 2008

What you think is what matters

Don't let people tell you what to think, how to feel and what to do. Be happy.

vrijdag 11 april 2008

donderdag 10 april 2008

Emotions are contagious

Be happy, make friends, and influence people.

woensdag 9 april 2008

dinsdag 8 april 2008

The Cottonelle Puppy

Make sure your firewall is working. In case you install it.

zondag 6 april 2008

zaterdag 5 april 2008

"Women can smell an agenda like shit on a shoe"

Be desireless. The Tao of Steve.

Life is a rollercoaster

Be a rollercoaster tycoon.

vrijdag 4 april 2008

What I am learning so far

I'm learning how to live alone. To take care of myself. To love truly and deeply without becoming obsessed. To wait and to be patient. To find out what true love is. To care for the other like she were my daughter. To protect her and make her feel safe and special. But not to cling to her. To be her friend. To be a man and to be strong. Not to be one of her girlfriends. To enjoy our short moments together. To take responsibility. To be true and faithful. Not to alienate her friends. Not to embarass her. Not to be needy. Not to bribe her. To show how much I love her. To give her spice and drama. Not to bore her. To be there for her. And enjoy myself.

donderdag 3 april 2008

woensdag 2 april 2008


dinsdag 1 april 2008

Neediness is attachment

It shows weakness.
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